As we navigate through busy seasons in our lives, it can be easy to let our friendships take a backseat. But during those busy times, it’s all the more important to remember that our friends are a crucial part of our support system. Those relationships deserve cultivation and attention. So how can we best show up for our friends when our lives get busy? Make sure your efforts speak to your loved one in the way that means the most to them–their love language. Today, we’re exploring five ways you can show up for friends in a busy season, love language by love language.
This post is sponsored by Endangered Species Chocolate, but the content and opinions expressed here are our own.
Gifts
The first love language we’ll explore is gifts. While it’s not about the materialistic aspect of giving, it’s about showing someone that you were thinking of them. One way to show up for a friend who’s going through a busy season (or when you’re in a busy season) is to drop off a small gift or treat. It doesn’t have to be anything expensive, but it could be something as simple as a loaf of bread or a homemade dessert. If you’re someone who enjoys baking, try making an extra batch of something and dropping it off at a friend’s house. It’s a great way to show them that you care and that you’re thinking of them.
Looking for a new recipe? We can’t get enough of our recipe for Cinnamon Chocolate Sourdough Bread (featuring our favorite chocolate from Endangered Species Chocolate) because it makes two loaves and is great for snacking any time of day!
Touch
For some people, physical touch is their primary love language. In a busy season, it’s easy to forget to connect with friends in a physical way. However, even a simple hug can go a long way. If “touch” is your friend’s love language, make sure to give your friend a hug the next time you see them!
Words
Words of affirmation can be a powerful way to show up for a friend. In a busy season, it’s important to take the time to send a text or a card letting them know that you’re thinking of them. If you’d like to take it a step further, you could send a gift card for their favorite coffee shop with a thoughtful message. It’s a quick and easy way to show your friend that you care and that you’re thinking of them.
Quality Time
For some people, quality time is their primary love language. It can be tough to find time to spend with friends during a busy season, but it’s important to make it a priority. Schedule recurring dates with your friend, whether it’s once a month or bi-weekly. If you have kids, try to include them in the plans. For example, a friend of mine and I (Jenna) like to meet early on a Saturday morning for coffee. This way, we get some quality time together, but we’re also able to spend time with our families later in the day.
Acts of Service
Finally, offering to help out can make all the difference to a friend whose love language is acts of service. Maybe they need help with the dishes, or maybe they need someone to pick up their kids for a random play date. Whatever it is, showing up and offering your assistance can be a great way to show your friend that you care.
In conclusion, it’s important to remember that friendships are a crucial part of our support systems. While it can be tough to find time to connect with friends during a busy season, it’s important to make it a conscious effort. By showing up in small ways, like dropping off a gift or offering to help out, you can make a big difference in someone’s life. Whether your friend’s love language is gifts, touch, words, quality time, or acts of service, finding ways to connect with them will help strengthen your bond and show them that you care.
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